• Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    tbf it is possible, I can imagine someone who’s fine with their AGAB but just wants different genitals.

    And maybe it’s a good thing to detangle that from being trans even for trans people, because then people can explore things at their own pace without immediately having to confront the big gender question.

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    Honestly as a transfem with mostly social and biochemical dysphoria, but with no bottom dysphoria at all, it makes at least a small amount of sense.

    If I can be a girl who wants to keep her OEM dick, then why can’t a cis girl want one too?

    Same kind of stuff that makes people get a salmacian. People are allowed to want whatever genitals they want, regardless of identity. It just hits weird to think of it that way 🤷‍♀️

      • Sas@piefed.blahaj.zone
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        I’ve seen that sentiment a lot in lesbian circles tbh. Where they might have a breeding kink but can’t live it that well due to genitals and those straps you can use fake cum with don’t do it for them